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Thursday, February 19, 2009

Unreasonable ... And Conflicting Views

** Updated**

Harian Metro news this morning states that PAS sympathized with what happened to MB Elizabeth and hope that the culprit will be caught soon.

Now, I wonder, is the same person giving statement to 2 different paper ? How come the report is so different? Or is it the writer's fault?


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I came across this article in the Utusan Malaysia today. And I got irked by what PAS had requested PKR to do. I mean, already MB Elizabeth is a victim of some irresponsible person, she is hurt and her job is in jeorpady and yet PAS have the guts to ask PKR to punish her.

I thought we should punish people who does wrong, not the other way wrong ? Why punish the victim ?

I find that people with politic on their mind, most of the time do not know what their talking. In this case, the PAS leaderwho made the statement seems to me, a very stupid statement.

Belajar saja tinggi-tinggi, tapi hampeh !

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

People With No Ethics

This post is refers to our MB Elizabeth - whose semi-nude photos taken without her knowing and is now being distributed by someone she used to trust.

Why kind of human being is this ? Nope, wait. This person isnt fit to even be called a human being for human beings dun do these kind of things to another human being.

I can imagine MB Elizabeth's feelings right now - anquish, hurt, etc...

I can only pray that the Lord will grant her streangth to overcome this matter and the Holy Spirit will comfort her at all times. I also pray that the culprit shall be caught soon and God will punish the person.

Handbook for the Year 2009

I received this from a close friend of mine and thought that I would like to share it with all of you....



Health:

  1. Drink plenty of water.
  2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
  3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
  4. Live with the 3 E ' s -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
  5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
  6. Play more games.
  7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
  8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
  9. Sleep for 7 hours.
  10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

  1. Don ' t compare your life to others ' . You have no idea what their journey is all about.
  2. Don ' t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
  3. Don ' t over do. Keep your limits.
  4. Don ' t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
  5. Don ' t waste your precious energy on gossip.
  6. Dream more while you are awake.
  7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
  8. Forget issues of the past. Don ' t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past.. That will ruin your present happiness.
  9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don ' t hate others.
  10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
  11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
  12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
  13. Smile and laugh more.
  14. You don ' t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

  1. Call your family often.
  2. Each day give something good to others.
  3. Forgive everyone for everything.
  4. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
  5. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
  6. What other people think of you is none of your business.
  7. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

  1. Do the right thing!
  2. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
  3. GOD heals everything.
  4. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
  5. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
  6. The best is yet to come.
  7. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
  8. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.


So, my friends, bottom line is to be happy always ! Cheers !

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Back To Work Again

I started working as of 16 Feb 2009, after 2 months of maternity leave.

How should I describe my feeling - I am contented by just staying at home and looking after Daniel and the house, but at the same time, I am also looking forward to come back to the office.

Anyway, lets not dwell on the possibility of staying at home full time for it is not possible. Not when we need the money to pay our house loan and other expenses...

So, when am I gonna get rich so that I can goyang kaki at home ? Never mind, the Lord has blessed me and family in every way. He tends to all our needs as He said "My grace is sufficient for you..."

Uphold Our Rukun Negara

As Malaysians, we have be taught and memorize since young, our Rukun Negara.

Let us refresh back on that:

  1. Kepercayaan kepada Tuhan
  2. Kesetiaan kepada Raja dan Negara
  3. Keluhuran Pelembagaan
  4. Kedaulatan Undang-Undang
  5. Kesopanan dan Kesusilaan

If it is in China, a person who commits treason will be sentenced to death. Here, we are still very accomodating. But, it has to have some limits. A Ruler is just like our parents, who wants the best only for the children (in this case, the Rakyat).

Let us continue to uphold the sovereignity of our Rulers, not like some people who doesnt display respect to the Ruler as he should. Call himself MB/Wakil Rakyat but doesnt act like one.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Presenting .... Daniel Egbert Adolf

Presenting to you our bundle of joy - Daniel Egbert Adolf
















Gong Xi Fa Cai ...

The time of the year is here again ...

Gong Xi Fa Cai to all chinese readers out there ...

Though this year seems to be slightly different. Every year we spent our CNY holidays in Ipoh, Perak but this year, since Daniel is too small, we decided to spend our CNY at home.

Furthermore, our house is also under small renovation - painting and floor polishing, plus we need to move our things to our new house, so there are lots of things to be done. It also helps to save some money as well..

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Happe New Year 2009

Seems a little bit late but nevertheless - Happy New Year to everyone !

Labour Experience - Part 2

Meanwhile, Hamid was doing all the admission process on my behalf. Initially, we wanted a 2-bedded room, to save some cost but some how I feared that it will be dragged till past midnight and I am sure I wouldnt wanna stay alone in the hospital. So when I managed to called up my syg using the public phone, I asked him if it is ok to take single room and he agreed. At the same time, he was trying to get back to KL from KK, waiting on the standby list.

Finally I got my room - thanks to Hamid who was there for me. A true friend indeed. And I managed to called up my mum to tell her that I will be in the hospital. She came over later, bringing some food and clothes for me to bath before I go for labour. And the time I admitted to the hospital was around 4.30 pm. And up till 11pm, it is still 2cm dilated, and my syg tak sampai-sampai lagi...

Finally, my syg arrived at the hospital around 12.30am, and by 1am, I started having more intense and frequent pain. That time I was 4cm dilated. The pain continued and I had to ask for painkillers as I couldnt stand. It doesnt take away the pain, it just sort of make it more bearable. It also helps to expediated the dilation. By 3 something, blood started oozing out and I was 7cm dilated. I was pushed in to the labour room and then that was when the "real" pain really started.

I dun think I wanna describe how the pain was coz no words can describe it. Praise the Lord that Daniel Egbert Adolf was finally born at 4.12am. Weighing at 2.97kg, he was just perfect. And with a very loud cry too !

After all the ordeal, all I can say was - "Syukur pada Tuhan."

Due to some problems with uploading the pics, I shall upload Daniel's pic another time.

Labour Experience - Part 1

From the start, Dr told me that my EDD (Expected Delivery Date) shall be 2 Jan 2009. But cautioned me to get prepared starting from 2 weeks before EDD.

I was thinking to only get ready like few days before EDD. Even my leave application was stated from 26 Dec onwards. But God knows better.

On the 17 morn, I woke up as usual - go take my bath but without my syg. My syg has gone to KK for an audit and was expected to be back only on the 19 Dec. That morn, I felt something differrent. My stomach was having kinda contractions rather frequently but not that painful. I took my bath as usual and then off to work. As these contractions are happening rather frequently, I gave a call to my syg... I even cried on the phone (mo mintak simpati kan) but I know he couldnt do much... I looked up on the internet on the difference between Braxton Hicks contractions and labour contractions.

So, here I am - thinking that "Ok, this should be false labour contractions. Nothing to worry about."

Mind you, the interval for each contraction was every 7 mins one contraction. And that has been going on since morn. My mum was rather concerned about my state especially during night when Egbert is not around.

Finally I decided to give a call to my Dr but he was not around so I spoke to the nurse - Kak Zai, who was assisting my Dr all the while. So, I explained to her my current conditionsand she got a bit worried. She told me she will call up my Dr to ask for guidance and later, will return my call. So I waited for her to call. That was around 2.30 pm. When she called me back, she said Dr's instructions was to admit to hospital ASAP for a checkup. I got a bit panic. But still ok - I called up my syg and my mum and told them about going to the hospital. I was planing to drive to hospital alone as I was still working that time. So I told my colleague about my plan to leave early. They in turn got panic hearing that I was planning to drive to hospital alone. One of my colleague manage to talk some sense into me that it isnt safe to drive alone, and that he will send me to the hospital.

So, I packed my laptop and other things but I didnt manage to hand over my work to other colleagues but I guessed it couldnt be helped. So Hamid, my colleague drove me back to my house to grab my labour bag and then we head to hospital.

At the hospital, I went to the Emergency straight away. As they had been notified of my condition prior to my arrival, I was taken to the labour room for a checkup. And indeed, my contraction intervals was every 7 mins and when the nurse inspected me, I was already dilated with 2 cm and I need to be admitted to the hospital immediately.

"Oh no, this is it." And my phone battery went dead. I got a bit scared as I fear I will be alone during labour. So I search for phone charger frantically. Failing that, I went in search for a public phone. Thank goodness I had coins with me.

Friday, December 12, 2008

New Baby Cot for Our Baby

Yeah yeah... I am so happy. We went to Ikea yestersday, shopping for our baby and finally, we found our baby cot. Cost us RM169 just for the cot, RM50 for the mattress, RM59 for the cover surrounding the cot (in case baby's legs or hands decide to get tanggled up). So, all in all, we spent about RM278 just for the bed. Oh, the daddy bought one small, miniature lion (the type where you slip your hand into it and start talking as though is the lion that talks) to as well which cost about RM12.90.

Then we got some other stuff for the new house. I can't wait to move in - I wanna assemble the cot, put away all the new household items that we have bought, do some cleaning up and settle down before the arrival of the baby.

Mom got some news that they are planning to hand over the keys on the 20th Dec but as of now, the owner has not contacted me at all as to when they are planning to hand over the keys. I am really crossing my fingers that they will hand over to us by 20th. That will at least give us some time to settle our things. Not that we can do any renovations at all, at least not until after my confinement.

Lets just cross our fingers and hope that good news will be awaiting for us.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Advent Season ...

Once again, we are in Advent Season.

Not so long ago, we were making final preparations for our wedding. Now, we are making final preparations for the coming of our baby .... Can't believe how fast the time flies... 2008 is almost gone, and 2009 is coming.

Lets look back at the year 2008. What have I done that I am proud of and what have I done that I shouldn't have do it?

Geez, this is definately a hard question. Well, not so hard actually. I am proud
  • to becoming a mummy soon, to go through the 9 months so smooth and easy,
  • of my contributions to the church,
  • that I am able to play keyboard in the church now (though I am cheating by using Casio chords),
  • to be able to do translation for homilies, and
  • that finally our Phase 3 project is once again going after picking up pieces and trying to assemble it together when the previous director left with all info scattering and missing,
  • to own a home of our own.

I am not proud when

  • I allowed people to accuse me of things that I did not do;
  • Not being to stand up for myself, to defend myself agaisnt the accusations;
  • Hating those who accused me, unable to forgive them (till recently few months ago);
  • I felt I neglected my family when I spend too much time with church activities (e.g. bringing my mum to market is something that I seldom do this year which resulted that she tumpang other people - makes me feel so guilty at times);

Will 2009 be a better year? I guess it is up to ourselves on how we wanna make it better. Need to be more positive thinking, that's for sure. Also, must find a balance between church activities and family.

But I am sure, with God's grace, everything is possible. Nothing will be too burden for me to carry, for God knows my strengths and weaknesses.

Meanwhile, I just wanna enjoy the remaining month, faithfully anticipating the arrival of our new member in the family.

Happy Advent to everyone !

Friday, November 28, 2008

Fatwa on Yoga

** Updated **

A note of thanks to Awa for correcting me. Fatwa is meant for Malaysian Muslim. The error is much regretted.

Hehehe, macam wartwan akhbar pulak.... Kekekeke...

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I am not so sure why are the Hindus protesting on this Fatwa issued by the Jabatan Agama Islam.

Fatwa is and will always be meant for kaum melayu. They are not banning yoga for everyone, so why is there a ruckus? Why are the Hindus making some sort of protests ?

Personally, I think they just wanna make an issue.

I am sure all of us can continue practicing yoga, minus the spiritual part of course. Or, if we are so "scared" that doing yoga will make us unfaithful, then instead of chanting the Hindu prayer, we pray in our own separate ways. For example, me as a Catholic, what I can do is, while doing yoga, I could probably pray the Prayer of Rosary... Now, that's an idea ....

We have been taught in school every Monday morn assembly, when a student is reciting the prayer, the rest of us who are non-Muslim, to pray in our own ways... That is the beauty of Malaysia - multi religion. We respected our peers while we are in school, why not now ? Does that mean that as we grow older we don't have to respect other people ?

I think it is time to go back to the fundamental of each religion - "Respect others as you would like to be respected."

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Petrol Price Down, Price for Goods ?

That is the consequences to be paid by us, the normal folks...

When the price of petrol was increase 70 cents earlier, ALL the price of goods increase. Example, Maggi Tom Yam used to be RM3.50, but since June, it is now RM 4.50. And mind you, though the price of petrol has gone down, I have yet to see the price of Maggi Tom Yam going down. And that is hypermarket's selling price.

Of course, nobody likes to lower down the prices once it has gone up.

Moral of the story: Don't ever make a sharp increase in the petrol price for it affects everything else. Now, even when you lower it down, it doesn't mean that the rest will follow. In the end, is the consumers who bear the cost.