New Baby Cot for Our Baby

Yeah yeah... I am so happy. We went to Ikea yestersday, shopping for our baby and finally, we found our baby cot. Cost us RM169 just for the cot, RM50 for the mattress, RM59 for the cover surrounding the cot (in case baby's legs or hands decide to get tanggled up). So, all in all, we spent about RM278 just for the bed. Oh, the daddy bought one small, miniature lion (the type where you slip your hand into it and start talking as though is the lion that talks) to as well which cost about RM12.90.

Then we got some other stuff for the new house. I can't wait to move in - I wanna assemble the cot, put away all the new household items that we have bought, do some cleaning up and settle down before the arrival of the baby.

Mom got some news that they are planning to hand over the keys on the 20th Dec but as of now, the owner has not contacted me at all as to when they are planning to hand over the keys. I am really crossing my fingers that they will hand over to us by 20th. That will at least give us some time to settle our things. Not that we can do any renovations at all, at least not until after my confinement.

Lets just cross our fingers and hope that good news will be awaiting for us.

Advent Season ...

Once again, we are in Advent Season.

Not so long ago, we were making final preparations for our wedding. Now, we are making final preparations for the coming of our baby .... Can't believe how fast the time flies... 2008 is almost gone, and 2009 is coming.

Lets look back at the year 2008. What have I done that I am proud of and what have I done that I shouldn't have do it?

Geez, this is definately a hard question. Well, not so hard actually. I am proud

• to becoming a mummy soon, to go through the 9 months so smooth and easy,
• of my contributions to the church,
• that I am able to play keyboard in the church now (though I am cheating by using Casio chords),
• to be able to do translation for homilies, and
• that finally our Phase 3 project is once again going after picking up pieces and trying to assemble it together when the previous director left with all info scattering and missing,
• to own a home of our own.

I am not proud when

• I allowed people to accuse me of things that I did not do;
• Not being to stand up for myself, to defend myself agaisnt the accusations;
• Hating those who accused me, unable to forgive them (till recently few months ago);
• I felt I neglected my family when I spend too much time with church activities (e.g. bringing my mum to market is something that I seldom do this year which resulted that she tumpang other people - makes me feel so guilty at times);

Will 2009 be a better year? I guess it is up to ourselves on how we wanna make it better. Need to be more positive thinking, that's for sure. Also, must find a balance between church activities and family.

But I am sure, with God's grace, everything is possible. Nothing will be too burden for me to carry, for God knows my strengths and weaknesses.

Meanwhile, I just wanna enjoy the remaining month, faithfully anticipating the arrival of our new member in the family.

Happy Advent to everyone !

Fatwa on Yoga

** Updated **

A note of thanks to Awa for correcting me. Fatwa is meant for Malaysian Muslim. The error is much regretted.

Hehehe, macam wartwan akhbar pulak.... Kekekeke...

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I am not so sure why are the Hindus protesting on this Fatwa issued by the Jabatan Agama Islam.

Fatwa is and will always be meant for kaum melayu. They are not banning yoga for everyone, so why is there a ruckus? Why are the Hindus making some sort of protests ?

Personally, I think they just wanna make an issue.

I am sure all of us can continue practicing yoga, minus the spiritual part of course. Or, if we are so "scared" that doing yoga will make us unfaithful, then instead of chanting the Hindu prayer, we pray in our own separate ways. For example, me as a Catholic, what I can do is, while doing yoga, I could probably pray the Prayer of Rosary... Now, that's an idea ....

We have been taught in school every Monday morn assembly, when a student is reciting the prayer, the rest of us who are non-Muslim, to pray in our own ways... That is the beauty of Malaysia - multi religion. We respected our peers while we are in school, why not now ? Does that mean that as we grow older we don't have to respect other people ?

I think it is time to go back to the fundamental of each religion - "Respect others as you would like to be respected."

Petrol Price Down, Price for Goods ?

That is the consequences to be paid by us, the normal folks...

When the price of petrol was increase 70 cents earlier, ALL the price of goods increase. Example, Maggi Tom Yam used to be RM3.50, but since June, it is now RM 4.50. And mind you, though the price of petrol has gone down, I have yet to see the price of Maggi Tom Yam going down. And that is hypermarket's selling price.

Of course, nobody likes to lower down the prices once it has gone up.

Moral of the story: Don't ever make a sharp increase in the petrol price for it affects everything else. Now, even when you lower it down, it doesn't mean that the rest will follow. In the end, is the consumers who bear the cost.

Assembly, Integration and Test Centre

The project has finally started today with the selling of the tender documents.

Lets hope that from now on, everything will go on smoothly.

Baby Cot or Playpen

** Updated **
Ok, looks like we made up our mind to go for baby cot. Thanks to the input by Sharin and Yantie...

Now, is time to start survey for one. Malaysia's grand sale starting this weekend, right? Anyone knows where to get a good and affordable baby cot?


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I still couldnt make up my mind - to buy a baby cot or a baby playpen ?

Which one is better ?

Play Pen by Graco (cost about RM549)

Baby Cot by IKEA

Playpen is used to place the baby temporarily while we go and do other things. Playpen won't be able to support baby till 1 year old. Baby Cot seems to last longer, according to what I read.

Um ..... Still thinking ....

Susah la ini macam... Sleep with mummy only la ... But scared la terhimpit my baby nanti ... Hehehehehe ....

Must go back and consult my syg first. Syg, any suggestion ?

Heartburn Sensation

I have been having this heartburn for the past few days. Initially, I thought probably because I haven't been eating correctly during the weekend, which thus resulted in me having this burning sensation at the back of my throat.

Come Mon, I didn't skip any meal and was back to eating normal, albeit small portion (appetite not that big anymore) but I am still having heartburn. So, I did a search on the website and found out that it is a normal symptom for any pregnant women.

That is due to the hormon progesterone in the body. So, nothing to worry about. I am not about to get any gastric or what....

Thank God.

New House

Well, not exactly new house - a 2nd-hand house, which we bought recently.

Located at Kota Kemuning - easy for my mum to take care of our baby later.

I am truly looking forward to moving in to this new house - with my syg and our baby. This is gonna be a new chapter in our life. I am very much excited about this.... Hehehehe....

But, unfortunately, can't move in yet. The current owner is still staying there as their new house is still under renovation. We are hoping that we will be able to shift in before our baby decides to come out to the world.

I am crossing my fingers, and hoping for the best but if time doesnt permit me to do reno before moving in, then I guess I'll just have to make do with the current condition of the house and patiently awaits the confinement period to be over to start the reno works.

34th Week of Pregnancy

My stomach is getting bigger, my legs are getting bigger, even my fingers are getting bigger...

**Sigh**

It seems every part of me is getting bigger. "I long to wear jeans" was what I told syg the other day .. "Sabar", he said ... Or at least I think that was what he said ... Hehehehehe....

Another 6 more weeks to go, but Dr said to get ready by 38 weeks coz baby can decide to come out from week 38 onwards...

So far, my baby is healthy. Of course la healthy, the mummy also healthy what. But I am truly thankful, coz I could say I had a rather smooth pregnancy. No morning sickness, occasional nausea for a month, and I can still "larat" to drive till now... Hehehehe....

God has truly blessed us.

Thank you ...

The Four Blessed Look

1) Look back and thank God.
2) Look forward and trust God.
3) Look around and serve God.
4) Look within and find God!'

'I asked God, 'How do I get the best out of life?'

God said:
a) 'Face your past without regrets.
b) Handle your present with confidence.
c) Prepare for the future without fear!'

'Without God, our week is:
1-Mournday,
2-Tearsday,
3-Wasteday,
4- Thirstday,
5- Fightday,
6-Shatterday, and
7-Sinday

So, allow Him to be with you every day!' '

Life is too short, so forgive quickly .
Love truly.
Laugh uncontrollably .
Never regret anything that makes you happy.
And have a wonderful journey !!!'

Be Blessed and have a Blessed Day!!!

Baseball Hero For That Day

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school andits dedicated staff, he offered a question:'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learnt hings as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay,who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:

Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball.

Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?'

I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We'relosing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in myheart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ballright back to the pitcher. The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded toward second base, the right fielder had the ball. The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home. All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third! Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

Expecting Mother To Travel By Air

We all know that expecting mother are allowed to travel by air up to 35 weeks of pregnancy. At least, that is the regulation set by the airlines.

MAS is no different. Even AirAsia has a requirement that I need to fill up a certain form even though I am only about 5 months plus to 6 months.

Now, as I hit 28 weeks, the regulations gets tighter. Not only do I need a letter from my gynae dr that I am able to travel by air, I need to seek clearance from the embassy of the country that I am about to enter, else I will face deportation.

I am scheduled to travel to Singapore next week (atas arahan boss la ni... ) so, I did all I need to do before flying off. Thank goodness I will be there only for 3 days 2 nights.

The only thing left is going through the document, which I planned to do today and the following days ahead.

I wonder what does it feels like travelling by air when I am 7 months pregnant? Must be a challenging experience without my syg for few days ....

Wishing Things Had Been Different

I had some history with my ex-boss.

Nothing was resolved till today, at least as far as I know. But, hey, no longer that I hold any grudge towards her. My life is more peaceful now, I let the past be a past. Just kinda sad the way things had to turn out to be.

There were lots of things that I learned from her. There are even times that I wished she is still there in the office, guiding us. She may be harsh at times, but with her around, you gained more confidence in doing things right.

I guessed being around her for quite some things had changed me in one way or another. Just yesterday, we finished one very important meeting on one of our equipment. How I wished she was there to chair the meeting, to ask questions, to show to people that we know what we wanted.

Well, its just a wish, anyway... And I vowed to myself, I will learn, and I will be the expert. It may be a big wish, but hey, I am allowed to make a wish, right ? Lets just hope I am able to carry it through.

Datukship - Is The Value Still There

Recently, Malacca state conferred Darjah Mulia Seri Melaka, which carries the title 'DATUK' to Shah Rukh Khan.

I wonder, what did Shah Rukh Khan ever contribute to Malacca, or even Malaysia ? As far as I know, there wasn't any contribution from that particular artist to us at all. So, why give him that award ?

Why not local artists like Sheila Majid, Azean Irdawarty, and many other producers who had made Malaysia famous in the eyes of the world be a worthy recipient of such awards?

Even lay people like me don't understand the logic behind this. No wonder our local artists felt cheated and betrayed. I emphatised with them. This is just what Karam Singh Walia will say - "Kera di hutan disusukan, anak di rumah dibiarkan."

Now, people no longer care if you are a Datuk or not. The value of being a Datuk is lost forever. Any Tom, Dick and Harry can be one now - so, what is so special about it anymore? It is no longer the contributions that enable one to be recognized.

New PM

Yes, we will be having a new Prime Minister in few more months...

Current one decided not to contest anymore - citing nation's interest is his first priority. I am hoping the new one will be able to bring back harmony into the country, and spur the country to greater heights.

With the economy so low, and investors losing interest in us due to current political situation, much is needed to be done to bring back the confidence of those investors.

But first of all, the confidence of the people itself needs to be "revive".

Hope that there is gonna be a "new revival in the land .... "

Holiday Mood

I must still be on holiday mood .... Nothing much interesting nowadays, not even politics interest me anymore. To me, it is just playacting by people who worries whether they have enough power or not.

We, the normal living people, is struggling daily to make decent living. With house and baby coming hand-in-hand, I am now beginning to wish that I will win in contests that offer cash as prize .... Blink, blink .... $$$$$$. Or maybe I should start buying lottery numbers - nah, it will be a waste of money. Probability of me to "kena" any number is extremely low.

I guess I need to ikat my perut (not that I can ikat much pun, with the baby growing inside me... hehehe ... wishful thinking, you may say) so that I can save up enough money ... But I trust in my Lord - He will provide all that I ever need (I also wish for a normal delivery on my expected delivery date which is 2 Jan 2009).

I have another 12 weeks to go - approx. 3 more months... Wish me luck !

Selamat Hari Raya

Just wanna wish all my friends - Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri.

Semoga sentiasa sihat sejahtera dan murah rezeki ...

Reasons To Be Detained Under ISA

Last Friday, 3 people were arrested under ISA. They are RPK, Teresa Kok and Sin Chew reporter, Tan. Tan had later been released.

I don't think I wanna speak about this on my blog. It is an insult to my intelligence hearing what our Home Mnister said about the arrest.

You can read it at the following bloggers' site - Rocky's Bru, Marina Mahathir, Nuraina A Samad, Maria A. Samad, Patrick Teoh and verify those statements at The Star Online.

It makes me sick knowing that the real culprits are only being reprimanded while those who are working for the sake of working are being detained.

Is there any hope for all of us ?

The Lord says - "Have faith in Me .... "

Peace And Unity

Malaysians are generally peaceful and united.

I am talking about us - the normal people, who goes about working and earning our daily wages, unlike those who think they were so "high" above, who doesn't need to work much, who think that they are looking after the welfare of their people.

Awa, a good friend of mine during our study years, in her posting today - "Sayang, Kau Bukan Orang Asing", reminds me of this little fact that most Malaysians, be it Malay, Chinese, Indian, Iban, Kadazan, Murut, Melanau, etc do not share the same sentiments of Bukit Bendera MP. We are GOD's highest creation - one with mind and soul. Therefore, it is only right that we behave like one and that means respect for God and for one another.

Awa, I love you lots...

The World Is Upside Down Now...

What the f*** ? The world is certaily going upside down.

When we were small, we were taught by our parents NOT to blame others for something wrong that we did.

This fellow had the guts to placed the blame on others, and telling him to "Get Out Of Barisan". Wa, Barisan belongs to you, is it ? If that is the case, then of course you can call the shots - to allow who you want to be with you. Probably those same people who are insane, uneducated, who do not advocate peace and unity, who had nothing else better to do and call other Chinese as immigrants.

Some more had the guts to ask innocent people to apologize to him ... I just say "Go To Hell" to these kind of people, who are blinded by his own ego.

I love all the friends I have. My best friend is a Malay. I also have good friends who are Chinese, Kadazan, Indian, Iban .... Why do you want to disrupt the unity that your forefathers had struggled to build ? You truly don't deserve to be called a Malaysian, let alone an UMNO leader.

May the Lord be kind enough to open your heart and your mind and especially your eyes to see the surrounding. You living in Malaysia is by the grace of God, so be thankful and count your blessings.

Happy Birthday To Nana

I wanna take this opportunity to wish my best friend - Nana, a very Happy Birthday. She was born on 8th Sept 1980.

We had been friends like forever- ever since we were in Primary 4 up to Form 5.

I missed you, dear friend and hope everything is well with you.

Hope to catch up with you soon !

Debt-Free

Today, I am one step closer to being debt-free.

Why ?

I just settled my car loan in full ... **sob**sob**

There goes all my money (not all, I still have 1, 2 ringgit left)

I still need to pay for other stuff - house reno, lawyer fees, baby's need ...

Aiyo yo .. looks like I am still burdened with debts.

Can money grow on a tree ?

A Reminder To Us As A Christian

Several years ago, a preacher from out-of-state accepted a call to a church in Houston , Texas . Some weeks after he arrived, he had an n occasion to ride the bus from his home to the downtown area.

When he sat down, he discovered that the driver had accidentally given him a quarter too much change. As he considered what to do, he thought to himself, 'You'd better give the quarter back. It would be wrong to keep it.'

Then he thought, 'Oh, forget it, it's only a quarter. Who would worry about this little amount? Anyway, the bus company gets too much fare; they will never miss it. Accept it as a 'gift from God' and keep quiet.'

When his stop came, he paused momentarily at the door, and then he handed the quarter to the driver and said, 'Here, you gave me too much change.'

The driver, with a smile, replied, 'Aren't you the new preacher in town?'

'Yes' he replied.

'Well, I have been thinking a lot lately about going somewhere to worship. I just wanted to see what you would do if I gave you too much change. I'll see you at church on Sunday.'

When the preacher stepped off of the bus, he literally grabbed the nearest light pole, held on, and said, 'Oh God, I almost sold your Son for a quarter.'

Our lives are the only Bible some people will ever read. This is a really scary example of how much people watch us as Christians, and will put us to the test!

Always be on guard -- and remember -- You carry the name of Christ on your shoulders when you call yourself 'Christian.'

Watch your thoughts; they become words.

Watch your words; they become actions.

Watch your actions; they become habits.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder.

The Will of God will never take you to where the Grace of God will not PROTECT you...

Stay FAITHFUL and Be GRATEFUL!

God Bless You.

Now I Am An Immigrant, Am I ?

Well, based on Bukit Bendera MP's recent remarks during the Permatang Pauh by-election, all Chinese are immigrants...

What the s**t is this guy talking ? I thought I am a Malaysian - my IC shows that I am one ... How come I am being labelled as an immigrant ?

Good thing was TPM apologized. Now, that is what I called a man who knows how to safe difficult situation, unlike this fellow who doesn't wanna say he is sorry and even planned to sue the reporter who reported this. This kind of people should not even be allowed to stay in this multiracial country.

What is becoming of Malaysia today ?

How Do I Look ?

Hehehe, I know it sounded vain ... But hell, who cares.... It is not like women get to be pregnant everyday of her life (hopes not...) so changes on the body is indeed a scary moment. What used to be slim and just alright now turns out to be huge. Ok, that is a bit exagerated, but hey, every part of my body seems to be swelling especially whenever I had a look at myself in the mirror every day and night ....


Ok, enough of that... I should expect all this to be coming along... Therefore, my resolution for the remaining months is "To eat only healthy food and whenever necessary. "


Actually, there are lots of good things that happened during my pregnancy. By the grace of God, I had no problem at all - be it sleeping, eating, walking, shopping, what so ever. That is why my syg so syg me - coz he dun have any problem taking care of me.... Pampered me some more ... Sure love that everyday of my life .... Kekekeke....


Ok, these are some pictures that I have taken when I was 22 weeks pregnant ... My friends were pestering me to post pics of me pregnant on the web ...

This photo makes me look so fat ... :(

This is much nicer ... Hehehehe... See, how vain I am ...

I loved this pic ...

Alson And Bidot's Wedding

First of all, congratulations to Alson and Bidot on their wedding 30.08.08. Me and Egbert flew back to KK on the 28.08.08 for their occasion.

And it was a great joy seeing the newly wedded couple so happy together, so in love with each other (just like us, kekekekeke) and seeing so many of our friends who attended the wedding as well.

Well... Congrats once again and cepat-cepat la ikut jejak saya ! Hehehehe...

Here are some of the snapshots taken ...

This shall be Alson's new family

GIFTers who attended the church wedding ceremony

The ladies ...

The guys ...

The newly wedded couple

1st Wedding Reception at Dewan Kebudayaan Penampang

A lot of smoke and bubbles ... It was indeed a fairytale come true

The wedding cake with lots of staircases ...

Isn't it romantic ?

As always, we the ladies, always "stick" together ... (Actually, the guys dumped us for beer)

2nd Dinner Reception at Sutera Harbour

Cake Cutting (and cake eating, of course)

Song dedication from Alson to his wife, Bidot ... Band players are GIFTers of course !

Last toast to Alson...

Last posing for the girls before everyone heads back to their respective place

Two Chimps and A Blonde

Another story that someone sent to me - this one is just for laughters ....

A blonde lady motorist was about two hours from the Gold Coast when she was flagged down by a man whose truck had broken down.

The man walked up to the car and asked, 'Are you going to the Gold Coast?"

'Sure,' answered the blonde, 'do you need a lift ?'

'Not for me. I'll be spending the next three hours fixing my truck. My problem is I've got two chimpanzees in the back which have to be taken to the Gold Coast Zoo.They're a bit stressed already so I don't want to keep them on the road all day. Could you possibly take them to the zoo for me? I' ll give you $100 for your trouble..'

'I'd be happy to,' said the blonde.

So the two chimpanzees were ushered into the back seat of the blonde's car and carefully strapped into their seat belts. Off they went.

Five hours later, the truck driver was driving through the heart of the Gold Coast when suddenly he was horrified!!

There was the blonde walking down the street and holding hands with the two chimps, much to the amusement of a big crowd.

With a screech of brakes he pulled off the road and ran over to the blonde.

'What the heck are you doing here?' he demanded, 'I gave you $100 to take these chimpanzees to the zoo.'

'Yes, I know you did,' said the blonde,' but we had money left over --- so now we're going to SeaWorld.'

For We Walk By Faith, Not By Sight

Anthony posted this in an email, and I was deeply touched by the story. It serves as a reminder to me that God is always there, guiding us day by day ...

I hope it will give you the same encouragement as it did for me...

The Legend of the Cherokee Indian Youth's Rite of Passage
Do you know the legend of the Cherokee Indian youth's rite of Passage? His father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him and leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not remove the blindfold until the rays of the morning sun shine through it.He cannot cry out for help to anyone. Once he survives the night, he is a MAN. He cannot tell the other boys of this experience, because each lad must come into manhood on his own.

The boy is naturally terrified. He can hear all kinds of noises. Wild beasts must surely be all around him. Maybe even some human might do him harm. The wind blew the grass and earth, and shook his stump, but he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could become a man!

Finally, after a horrific night the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold.

It was then that he discovered his father sitting on the stump next to him. He had been at watch the entire night, protecting his son from harm.

We, too, are never alone. Even when we don't know it, God is watching over us, sitting on the stump beside us. When trouble comes, all we have to do is reach out to Him.

Moral of the story:
Just because you can't see God, doesn't mean He is not there. 'For we walk by faith, not by sight. Trust in Him and do right.

Monthly Checkup

We went for our monthly checkup last Sat.

Was planning to consult doc on the various issues like :

1. Am I still having UTI (Urinary Track Infections) ?
2. Result of Triple Test ?
3. My weight ?
4. Feotal movement
5. Travelling by plane

Let me explain the first one. What is UTI ?

UTI is actually the presence of bacteria found in the urine, which if it is not treated, it will lead to kidney problems which will lead to premature birth. Naturally, I was worried when the hospital called me 2 weeks ago to ask me to come to the hospital. I asked the nurse what was wrong. Was it something wrong with my blood test a.k.a Triple Test ? She said no, it was the urine test. The pathology lab found traces of bacteria in it. So, I asked her - is it serious ? She put me to talk to Dr. BK Tan. So, doc assured me that it is not so serious but I still need to take some antibiotic. I went to the hospital 2 days later to get the antibiotic. I opted not to see the doc as doc said it is not critical and I can choose to see him according to my scheduled appointment.

So, after 1 week of taking the antibiotics, and another week of waiting, I went for my monthly checkup last Sat. This time doc even told me how to "catch" the urine sample, and truth betold - my urine test was fine. All I need to do is just to wipe it clean, release the first stream of urine (and beware not to let the urine touches the side of the vagina as this is where all the bacteria stays) and catch it. Hehehehe.... So glad that it was because of my worng technique.

Result of Triple Test

Triple test was actually a blood test. They called it Triple because it includes a test to check the percentage of the baby having Down Syndrome. Doc told me that this test is a must in other countries but in Malaysia, the government does not enforce it. But now, most of private hospital encourage their patients to do this test. I did a check on the Internet as well and found that even goevernment hospitals in countries like UK made this test a compulsory test.

And the result came out is NEGATIVE. Meaning to say, the chances of my baby having down syndrom is 1 in every 50,000 babies. Which is small. So, now I don't have to worry about my baby having Down Syndrome. God's blessing is certainly upon us.

My Weight

This is also another issue that I am afraid. The last check-up I have gained 3 kg and now the recent check up, I have gained another 3 kg. All in all, from the first check to the fourth checkup, I have gained a total of 8kg. Scary or not ? Doc said it is a little higher than the normal 2 kg, which I should gain in a month. I am still within the normal range - 8 to 12 kg for the whole of 9 months. Um, what should I do ? Can't go on diet. Jus have to make sure I eat healthy food, exercise a bit (which is something I did not do at all) and stay out of junk food. I must also try and eat small bits but frequent, rather than eating all the time. I hope this time I can manage to stay within the average rate.

Feotal Movement

I mentioned to doc that I am still unable to recognize any feotal movement. Sometimes it made me kinda scared not feeling any movement. Is my baby alive or what ? So, last Sat, I asked the Doc to show me the feotal movement. And my God, the feeling of watching the baby arm raised up, flexing his tiny fingers was indeed a joy to look at. And it is a marvelous feeling having watched the tiny one moving in your stomach and to learn it is slowly growing. My baby at this moment doesnt move a lot. He only raised up is arms once a while, flexing his fingers or gripping it. How I wish I can have this kind of monitor at home so that I can watch to my heart's content the movement of my baby. Hehehehehe....

Travelling By Plane

I will be going back to Sabah this Thurs, together with syg. So, need to get doc's consent whether I am ok to fly or not. Doc said is ok. I am only 21 weeks. is only when I am 28 weeks and above that I shouldnt be travelling at all.

So, all in all, I am healthy, my syg is healthy and my baby is healthy. Thanks be to God.

Muahhh ....

Petrol Price Down By 15 Sen

That was the recent announcement by PM.

15 sen reduction - which means I still need to spend RM64 just to fill up my tank full. A reduction of RM6 from the previous price.

Now, not that I am complaining. I welcomed any move that eases our burden as daily consumers.

What amuses me was I thought, and read and re-affirm by the one speaking that new price for petrol will only be announced on the 31st Aug. He said he will not announce any earlier just to garner votes for the upcoming by-election. Fine, its your call, I believe.

Then, the very niext day - he announced in the paper that the petrol price will go down by 15 sen effective 22 Aug, 10 days earlier that what we are expecting. And reason gave for this was because to lower our burden.

Looks like a flip-flop to me. Sikijap 1, sikijap jadi 2. Macam biskut Chipsmore, "Now you see, now you don't."

I Was Tagged !

Tag .... What is that ?

I thought when someone tagged me, all I need to do is just to add him/her. And that was what I did when Awa tagged me.

Awa was having a laugh of her life when she realized that all I did was just to add her link to my page. Then, she kindly explained to me how this tagging works. Actually, all I need was just to refer to her page posting on TAG and simply answer all the questions that she had on that post. Sort of like chain mail or something like that.

So, here I am now, trying to answer the questions .....

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First Time

***** Naik Kapal Terbang *****

Went to Kota Kinabalu, Sabah to attend my future (dulu la) sis-in-law's wedding in Dec 2004. That was my first time on a plane. Nasib baik got my syg to accompany me. Hehehehe...


***** Pergi Overseas *****

Went to China in June 2005. To attend the Satellite Training Course. I couldnt believe it. It was like a dream come true. Beijing was always my first choice if I have the chance to travel overseas. After all, my grandpa hailed from China. So, I definately wanna visit my ancestors' place. Singapore mimang pernah pi, tapi terlampau dekat... Tia 'kick' ni ...


***** Duduk Jauh Dengan Family *****

Um, first time was when I did my Diploma in UTM Jalan Semarak, KL. Tak jauh pun, but consider jauh la for me coz I was staying away from home. Next was when I further my Degree and Master in UTM Skudai. That time was fun ! I had the most unforgettable memory while I was in JB.


***** Rasa Diri Gemuk *****

Huhuhuhu..... I am feeling rather FAT and BLOATED now .... What to do ... I got my precious in the stomach .... Dun worry, I will be slim later ... .Kekekekeke


***** Kerja *****

Part time crew at Pizza Hut. That time I really gila kerja. Maklum lah, after SPM. Got nothing to do. Sanggup jalan kaki to work place just because I kedekut wanna naik bus. Hehehehe...


***** Bercinta *****

Aiyoyo, ini kisah lama lo .... Um, first bf that I had was a Chinese-Indian mix. Broke up within 2 months. Who ask the fella to go gatal-gatal with another gal ? Padan muka .... Heheheheh...


***** Masuk Panggung Wayang *****

Since I was small. My parents loved to watch movies at the cinema during their golden days. That time only me and bro ma ... So, easier to take care. Now got two more younger sis, cannot already lor....


***** Rasa Diri Cantik *****

Emmm, hari-hari I rasa diri I cantik (even though I am bloated now) .... Hahahahaha... Positive thinking ma....


***** Melahirkan zuriat *****

Um, not yet. Wait till next year la ...


***** Masuk Wad *****

This reminds me of the time I spent in Puteri Specialist in JB. Not me masuk wad, but my syg masuk wad. Accident, became a 'Superman' that ended up in the hospital. 3 days I stayed in hospital. Slept in the hospital, took my bath in the hospital. Food also eat hospital food. Luckily, he has recovered. All that was left was the memory and the scars.


That is all, I guess ....

I Will Sue You For Giving Suggestions

Well, that seems to be the norm thing to do in the world today.

You get people suing other people because they simply dislike the suggestion made by that person. No, first, they start off with road demonstration - to demonstrate how much they dislike the suggestion. Next, they call for an apology over that suggestion. If one refuses to apologized, then they will sue the person.

Never had I attended any meeting that one person is suing another person just because they do not agree with the suggestion. A suggestion still remains a suggestion until it is accepted by the majority and is carried out. So, why are people making such a big fuss and some more want to demand apology or else, be prepared to receive a court letter.

I should have taken up a lawyer profession long time ago. If I could foresee the future, I am sure I will be filthy rich just handling these kind of cases - one suing another just because they don't agree with that suggestion.

What is becoming of the world today ?

Malaysia Recieved Its First Medal In The Olympic

Picture courtesy of The Star -http://www.thestar.com.my/sports/story.asp?file=/2008/8/18/olympics/22112564&sec=olympics

Lee Chong Wei against Lin Dan. World No 2 against World No 1.

That was the highlight of last night's match. And sad to say, our Chong Wei lost to Lin Dan. He must have felt an immersed pressure playing against Lin Dan with all the Chinese supporters around. Even I myself was having a nervous time watching the game and my heart was beating so fast.

I dun wanna comment on the game. He reached finals after a 12 years drought and brought home a medal for Malaysia. His game improved a lot and I was amazed watching him playing against Lee Hyunil. It will definately be hard playing against Lin Dan and on China ground. All I can say is - "Well done, Chong Wei. You did the best you could ! "

Microcontroller Based Designing

That was the course that I had for the entire last week.

Well, basically it gives a basic and general overview on what is Electric, what is Electronic and Microcontroller.

Though it is only a basic course, but for me, sometimes it is this small detail that is lacking and is much needed in order to go deeper of the subject.

A very fruitful course indeed, but due to lack of time, we didnt get to do some hands-on on interfacing with the microcontroller.

Becham Wannabe or Ian Thorpe Wannabe ?

Okie. So both of them doesn't refer to me. I can neither kick a ball to its target nor swim like a frog.

So, what is this post all about ? Actually, it is about my baby ... Yup, about my baby again ... Kekekeke... As days goes by, is kinda hard not to notice this little fella, nesting snugly in my stomach. Why ? Because my stomach is getting bigger, that's why. I used to be able to see my two feet plus my knees, nowI am only seeing half of it, and my view of the knee is a little bit obstructed by my stomach.

Not a very nice pic, huh ?

Anyway, people had already started asking me whether I am able to feel the movements of my baby yet. And I always seem to reply "No, not yet." I started feeling rather despair when I couldnt feel the movements, but doc assured me that it is normal for first time mummy-to-be. But still I try and try to search for the movements and have complained endlessly to syg about this until syg had to pacify me and said "Be patiet. You'll feel it. Dun worry."

This past few days I actually felt the baby was moving. First time was on Sun night, while I was lying down on the bed reading. Then subsequently, the following night, I felt it again. It feels like bubbles coming out or bubbles forming when we are hungry. And the baby is active especially if I happened to lie down on the bed. But when I sleep at night, I usually sleep through the night. Which is good coz I loved to sleep. Hehehehehe...

I am sure he is actively moving inside, kicking here and there (my stomach was quite painful last night - he must have scored a few goals) or swimming here and there. Syg once felt the baby moving, way earlier that me, and he was thinking why and how on earth that I able to move my stomach that way.

Funny huh how the little one is growing ....

I am sure every mother is savoring this moment, just like me....

Baby Names

I am in the middle of compiling a baby name book. And even thought of few names (actually only one boy's name at the moment, since the doc said it is gonna be a boy) but I didnt realize it will be this hard to find.

Probably because I am looking for a name that has a biblical meaning, rhymes well with daddy's name, easy to call upon, and so many other criterias... A name is forever, you know, so must choose very carefully. Just like I remembered my dad told me how he decided on my name - after much deliberation and weighing the good and bad.

So, at the time being, I decided to call my baby - 'Baby'. Syg said must not simply call names coz we havent decide the name. I said, 'OK...'

My darling baby ..... Muaahhhhh .....

The New Way Democracy

We have read in the paper that Tun Rafidah is passing the baton over to her deputy, Datuk Seri Shahrizat in the year 2009. Therefore, she had appealed to all Wanita members not to contest for the top two posts so that they can win unoppossed. This is to ensure the unity of the members remains strong.

Reason that I post this up was - I used to be active in societies where we have president, vice president, secretary, treasurer and so on and so forth. Never had anyone taught me before that the post of president can be passed over to the deputy unless the president decides to quit out of his/her personal reasons. That also does not mean that the deputy will be promoted automatically. What was the norm was the deputy will temporary hold the position until the next soonest election.

So, does this mean that there will be another election after Tun Rafidah quits ? It somehow wasnt projected that way in the paper. I could be mistaken. But if it is true on what was reported in the paper, then isn't it a mocking to democracy that we had 'upheld' all these times ? Why wanna contest when you decided to quit before the term is over ? Shouldn't the people elect who they want as their chief ?

Doesn't make any sense at all. Nothing ever does nowadays...

Ex-DPM Making A Comeback

Most newspapers, including foreign newspaper are talking about ex-DPM making a comeback.

And he will be contesting in the place that his wife has vacated just for him - Permatang Pauh. It was a loving gesture from his wife to make way for him. The wife has said it numerous times, even at the start when she contested in 1999 and won the seat. She has made it known from the beginning that she is there temporarily and will surrender it back to the husband. So, why other people are saying that she betrayed the trust of the people who voted for her ?

I dunno about politics, and frankly, I don't give a damn. I said there are too much 'politic-making' nowadays that I actually got fed up reading the main stream media. I dunno what to believe anymore now. It doesnt seem to make any sense anymore. I am finding that adults (especially those with power and authorities) seldom said what they mean.

Now, I just wanna concentrate on my work and at the same time, enjoying this special moment with my two babies - one big and one small. Hehehe....

MRR Cracks Again ?

Yup, it seems that this is the 3rd time - which definately scares the hell out of the motorists who were passing by at that time.

70 million was spent to assess and repair - and yet it still cracks .... One does wonder why these things are still happening.

Though I would not like to think of bad things, but how many time do the government need to 'pay' to rectify the problem ? Oops, I forgot, it is still under warranty (or so claimed by the authorities) till the end of this year. What about next year ?

Will be repair works sustain over a period of 15 to 20 years ?

I dare not imagine what will happen - I can only hope that it does sustain so that tax payer's money will be well spent in other areas.

Celebating Janice's Birthday

My niece - Janice, was born on 3rd August 2001. Yup, she is 7 years old already now... Couldn't believe how fast time flies.

My cousins invited all of us for a dinner to celebrate her birthday. So, we went all the way to Kepong to try out this restaurant that they enjoyed so much.

Kinda far, but the food was superb ! I enjoyed every single dish they have ordered. But what I enjoyed most was looking at my two nieces' facial expression. They truly light up my world and I wished my baby will be as cute and lovely as them. Though 'lovely' may not seem to be the right word now since the doc says I am carrying a boy in my stomach. Hehehehe....

But nevertheless, the kids are such a joy to be with thought both Janice and Rachel are as different as day and night.

Love the both of them !

I am actually so excited to share this ...

I finally passed my PTK ! And mind you, not normal pass (aka Aras III) but with flying colours (aka Aras IV). At first, I couldnt find the result. Then I saw it - Level 4 ! I have to look and re-look numerous times to convince myself that it is indeed level 4. Words cant even describe the feeling that I had at this moment.

The first person that I wanna thanked is Jesus. He gave me the strength to persevere, even in times I was facing accusations and emotional torture from my previous boss but God gave me the strength to pull-through. He heard my small little prayer and He answered me. Even after a heavy storm, the sky will clear and blue with beautiful rainbow and sunshine.

Next, I wanna thanked my syg for having faith in me and never once he stopped giving me motivation. He is indeed my guardian angel. I love you, syg ....

Lastly, thank you to all my colleagues that supported and believed in me. That really gave me motivation to show to 'them' that they are wrong in their accusations.

Sys is Sick ...

Kecian my syg ...

He is sick from the minute he reached home from Sarawak. Down with flu and cough. I just pray that he will recover fast.

'Lord, please grant healing to my hubby. In Jesus name I pray, Amen. '

Happy Birthday To Me

I just wanna thank God for the many blessings He has bestowed upon me.

' Thank You God for giving a healty life, healthy baby, loving husband, understanding family members, good colleagues and many more .... Though there are ups and downs in my life, but I know that You will never forsake me nor leave me. You gave me strength and hope when I am down, and You gave me love.

Thank you Jesus for your ever lasting love to me and my family. For your salvationand many teachings that You have gave us.

And thank you Mother Mary for intercedes all our prayers to your Son.

Amen. '

Outstation ... Again ....

Actually, that refers to my syg ... He is in Bintulu now, till Wednesday which he will then flies off to Sibu and be back on Fri...

I sure miss him already.

Syg, take care kio ...

F1 - Germany GP

Last week saw Hamilton raced to chequered flag. It was a thrilling race which saw him pitted and rejoin in 4th position after leading for almost three quarter of the race. He overtook Massa and Piquet Jr to win the race.

It was indeed a good weekend for McLaren and a bad one for Ferrari. Ferrari obviously lack of speed to match McLaren. Hopefully, they will bounce back in the following race.

What ire me was the way Hamilton so haughtily said to the press - "that Massa didnt defend his position very well. If things were reversed, Massa would not have gone through me so easily. "

I don't know what is wrong with me, am I being prejudice towards Hamilton or what. But somehow, the way he said it to the press makes me think that "This guy is so sure of himself and his head is getting bigger and bigger !" He could sure use some humility, and learn to be a little bit like Kimi. Less air in the head.

Well, what can you say ? There are lots of people with different characters.

Happy Birthday to Syg ...

Just wanna wish my syg - A Happy Birthday .... May God's blessings be upon you now and forever.

Love you always.

Baby Pics

I hope my baby will be as cute as this baby (but no green eyes though) ...

These are cute as well, kan ?

"Aku ada cerita ni... lawak la jugak.. tapi jangan ketawa tau...

Aku baru berkahwin setahun yang lepas dan duduk dengan isteri aku. Kami duduk berdua sahaja sebab belum dikurniakan anak. Aku ni ada satu kegemaran -iaitu makan telur rebus. Aku pun tak tahu kenapa aku suka makan telur rebus, sedap agaknya.

Sebelum aku kahwin, aku memang gila telur rebus. Pagi petang siang malam makan telur rebus. Tapi semenjak aku kahwin ni aku terpaksa berkorbanlah, iaitu dengan meninggalkan tabiat aku ini. Lama juga aku dah tak pekena telur rebus ni.. sebab orang rumah aku masak sedap-sedap. So aku dah tak kisah lagilah..

Ceritanya begini, bulan lepas masa aku balik dari kerja, tiba-tiba kereta aku rosak.. Akupun telefon bini aku katakan aku balik lambat sebab kena menapak. Sebab lapar aku pun singgah satu kedai makan tu... Ada telur rebus lah.. akupun makan nasi dengan telur rebus.. Lepas tu, aku order telur rebus lebih lagi untuk diratah. Sebelum balik aku bungkus lagi 10 biji telur rebus untuk makan sambil berjalan balik nanti. Tiba je kat rumah aku rasa amatlah kenyang.. Maklumlah nak balas dendam sebab lama tak pekena telur rebus.

Sebelum aku masuk ke rumah, isteri aku tiba-tiba cakap dia ada 'surprise' untuk aku malam ni. Dia suruh aku tutup mata dengan kain hitam yang diikat kemas dibelakang kepalaku. Dan dipimpinnya aku sampai ke meja makan Aku duduk di kerusi dan isteriku pesan jangan cuba buka ikatan yang menutup mataku.

Aku nak pergi toilet sebab perutku mula buat hal, tapi malaslah nak spoilkan 'surprise' isteriku ini. Aku pun tahan ler... Tetiba telefon berbunyi, isteriku pergi mengangkatnya. Apa lagi ada chance aku pun melepaskan kentut yang ditahan sekian lama.. Fuuuuhhh lega rasanya... Baunya pun boleh la tahan... Maklumler berapa biji telur tah aku bedal tadi... Alamak, ada lagi satu la.. Aku pun angkat sebelah punggung dan lepaskan satu das lagi.. Bunyinya PROOOTTT!! ..

Fuh bau jangan cakap beb.. aku pun tak tahan bau dia... aku kipas pakai tangan angin dia kasi kurang sikit bau dia... Adalah macam bau telur tembelang sikit.. Tetiba aku dengar bunyi telefon berdering lagi... hai lamanya tunggu isteri aku ni, aku tak sabar lagi ni nak tahu surprise dia ni.

Aku terasa ada lagilah, kali ni memang aku rasa power punyalah.. aku kumpul dulu kasi padu.. lepastu aku bangun, tonggeng sikit dan lepaskan angin taufan tu... PRRROOOOOTTT! !!!... fuhh lega... bergegar sikit meja makan dibuatnya... peh tak tahan aku bau dia power gila.. aku tutup hidung aku.. aku rasa bau dia ada sikit-sikit macam bangkai la.. mau mati bunga atas meja makan aku ni.. sambil tu aku sebut 'ahhhh.... lega...'.

Adalah dekat 5 minit baru bau bangkai tu hilang.. Lepas tu isteri aku kembali dan minta maaf sebab lambat.. lalu dia kata 'SURPRISE!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!' dan suruh aku buka kain penutup mata aku.. laaa birthday aku hari ni le... camne boleh lupa ni.. Aku buka le kain penutup mata aku.. mulutku terus melopong... ALAMAK!!!

Benda pertama aku lihat.. muka merah padam pak mertua aku, mak mertua aku, adik ipar aku dua orang, duduk keliling meja makan. Bos aku dengan jiran sebelah rumah rumah aku pun ada???

Jadi aku pun nak cover malu, aku tanya la kat pak mertua aku, 'Dah lama ke pak sampai?'.

Dan pak mertua aku pun jawab.'Dah lama. Sebelum kentut pertama lagi!!'. "


Hahahahaha.....

p/s: Jangan ketawa kuat-kuat, nanti malu. Senyum buli lah ...

I Want Chocolate Milk Too !

Just to share with you ....

What Is Happening With Malaysia Now ?

Never had I felt such a repulse nowadays while reading the daily news.

What is happening to the country now ? I felt so fed up (not to mentioned embarrased) with our political situation that I wished (sometimes) that I am staying elsewhere.

Just because someone said there is gonna be a rally somewhere, the entire town is subjected to road blocks here and there. Today, I heard on the radio that there is gonna be road blocks as well. Wonder if there is another planned rally today ....

What the ??????

I always thought that democracy is by the people, for the people.

It looks like our pockets are set to have bigger holes now .... And no one seems to be able to have any say at all. And I personally think that the recent debate has yet to provide any help to the citizens of the country.

Addicted to Facebook

Well, that is the recent activity that I joined online - Facebooking.

And I am just hooked on it - at least on some of the application in it. Much more interesting compared to Friendster, whats more with Friendster now being high-jacked by spammers (i seemed to received a lot of messages from my friends, but somehow the message is nothing related to my friends). I wonder how does one report to Friendster ? We can't clicked SPAM on that message coz that will practically block all other incoming messages from our friend.

Hehehe, I know that some are just as hooked on as I am. Not that I am blaming you. It is certainly more fun compared to Friendster and any other application.

Live Facebook !

Car Broke Down !

Just imagine on jam-packed Sunday afternoon, cars are basically bumper-to-bumper scenario, your car's cluth suddenly failed you and you are stuck, right in the middle of the 3 lanes !

Scary ?

Yup, that was what happened to me last Sunday ! The clutch suddenly gave some scary sound, and poops, it went dead. I was unable to engage into any gear at all, thus had to leave the car's hazard lights on immediately. I was thankful that no car came and honk me, or worse, bang me from behind as it was very jam that day.

Having 4 ladies in the car makes it even more difficult to move the car away to the emergency lane though I know that should be the thing to do while awaiting for two truck to arrive. Unless I was not pregnant, I could probably do that. But since I am pregnant, I decided to sit in the car (in the middle lane) while awaiting for some kind hearted stranger to assists us.

God was kind to us, He gave us 2 angels to help us pushed the car to the emergency lane. God bless these to Malay samaritans. Finally, we are out of danger. So, we waited patiently for the truck to come Meanwhile, made some changes to the plan whereby asked my mum and sis to take a cab to Mid Valley and later we (me and syg) will come and pick them up at Mid Valley.

So, now everything went according to plan B. Truck came and mum took a cab, me followed back to service centre, and there, upon seeing the familiar Kembara parked by the road side, and my syg waiting for me, you got to imagine the amount of relief that I felt at that time. Syg came immediately from church meeting (which I escaped coz need to bring Mum to Mid Valley to get new pinafore for my youngest sis). I was so thankful to God for keeping all of us safe from any harm.

Talked to Mr Teoh about the incident and was rather sad that should the worse case scenario happen (have to change the entire clutch pad), the cost will be around RM500. And that was excluding the towing service, which amounted to RM150. Well, things happened and nothing much can be done about it. After all, there is a need to spend this money - is for our safety after all.

Then , I made a prayer - I actually did. I asked God to have mercy on us, coz money is certainly very tight for us now. Whats more with the baby coming and the purchase of the house. God does listen to our prayers. A thorough check on the car revealed that only the clutch cable and some minor repairs need to be done. So, all in all, I spent RM185 for it.

Thank you God - for listening to our prayer, for keeping us safe from harm.

I love you, Jesus !

KAGAPE '08

6th July 2008 - Pesta Kaamatan, Gawai dan Panen peringkat Keuskupan Agung Kuala Lumpur telah diadakan di St Anthony Church, Pudu.

This is the harvest festival celebrated by the people from Sabah, Sarawak and Indonesia - giving thanks to GOD for the fruitful harvest that they have received all year long.

It began with mass, celebrated by Archbishop Murphy Pakiam, Fr Jestus, Fr Valentine and 4 other priests (which I have forgotten their names). Mass was indeed wonderful with the beautiful choir and dance presentations by various people.

Then, we had our lunch (which is a major queue just to get the food) and finally we had the celebrations just after lunch. Our church (Gereja Katolik Fatima) was also one of the participants for the celebration where we presented a 'Drama Tari' (which is actually Sumazau dance with Togunggak instruments, guitars and choir)

All in all, we had a fun time at St Anthony and everyone went home tired by happy. I am sure it will be a non-forgtting moment for all of us as this is the first time that we actually play in front of a crowd (what's more for those who have just been baptized recently). God is truly awesome !

King + Pat 's Wedding

~Part 4~

Let the party begins !


Wedding dinner was held at Sunway Club, PJ. The hall was actually a indoor badminton court converted and all the decoration was done by friends. From the balloons to the table setting to the registration counter to the bar, I would say this is what we called 'Tolong - Menolong Dalam Masyarakat Majmuk.'


Lets look at the pictures and see what a good job these great people has done !

Setting of the table - rose petals, engraved rocks, scented candles

The registration counters - to manage all the ang pows received

The wedding cake - Themed 'Butterfly'

Anthony busy sticking the guest lists and table numbers

A huge-sized banner pasted on the wall

The 3 stooges (L - R) - Henry the MC, Desmond the vocalist, Anthony the registration coordinator

Some of the guests seen arriving and signing on the guest book.

The band, led by the groom's bro - Christopher Khoo

Ellison busy ensuring everything goes according to plan

Arrival of King and Pat to kick start the night

And that's it folks ... Till the next wedding in August ! THE END !

~Part 3 ~

The next part is the marriage solemnization at St. Anthony Church, KL. Nothing much to write, so I'll just leave it for the pictures to explain everything ... :)

The altar at St. Anthony Church, Pudu

The bride's father is giving away the bride to the groom

Pat smiling happily - 'Finally it is all over'

The radiant bride and the smiling groom

Posing with the family members after mass

~Part 2 ~

Now, the 1st hurdle for the guys are, of course, 'Declaration of Love'. Now, different couples have different ways of doing it. Let see how King and the geng did it ...

Here comes the 'Chee Muis"

The letter 'I' - Raymond was holding it

"Yup, that's right. You guys have to wear the disposable underwear"

Okay, so far three of us can fit into it.

"Opps, one person is missing ! " Actually Ivan (in red) is at the far left. It should read - I LOVE PAT

There goes the 1st hurdle. 2nd hurdle is where we can actually see King giving all the heng thais a BIG KISS (as a thank you gesture for wearing the underwear) with a bright lipstick on his lips.

"Fabian, you're the best. Muaaaahhhhh"

"Anyone want another kiss ? Let me just 'refill' my lipstick. "

Finally, we are allowed to enter the house. That also have to give 'toll money' first to the 'Chee Muis'. Thought finally we get to meet the bride, but no, more is waiting for us inside. There are at least 4 more hurdles to go through. This is gonna be a longggggg morning.

3rd Hurdle is where both King and Al try to have smoother legs, and no, they are not allowed to use shaver but instead, the wax method ... hahahahaha .... It sure funny looking at them. The trick is to know where to put the wax patch so that it lessen the pain. Ladies, I am sure you know that. Guys will be wondering what the heck I meant by that. Wanna know ? Try it out yourself.

4th hurdle was where the guys was asked some questions about Pat (and mind you, those questions were extremely difficult). If they can't answer the question, then they need to be punish - by doing 1 Yogo pose. In the end, they couldnt answer a single question so they ended up doing Yogo instead.

5th hurdle was where the guys need to sing a song (chosen by the chee muis) and King has to mimic as a pole dancer. I salute Kingston ! He is THE MAN ! He just take everything they dished out to him. Thinking back, my syg was so much luckier. He has not these sort of hurdles to go through.

Last hurdle is the guys need to sing a song. Wait, not just any song, but a song in Hokkien language. And if you notice earlier, none of the heng thais are Chinese. Well, Kingston may be a Chinese but he is unable to speak any Chinese dialects at all. So, as usual, they have to invent a Hokkien song, which was not acceptable since it was not a love song in Hokkien. They pleaded to change to Tamil song and finally the girls relented. Wonder what was the meaning behind that Tamil song coz I had a feeling it is not a love song either. But who cares, bottom line is the door is finally opened and there the Bride is waiting.

King + Pat

To be continued ...

~Part 1 ~

28 June 2008 - King & Pat got married on this day. It was really a whole day event, which practically begans at 6.00am and ends at 12 midnight.

Well, we were part of the entourage (a.k.a "heng thais") for Kingston. 4 cars went to pick the bride at Brickhouse, Sea Park. And now I know why it was called a "brickhouse". Upon reaching, we found out that there were no gate at all ! Only a "prison-like" door, which makes it extremely hard for the "heng thais" to break through the door and kidnap Pat away. Wishful thinking, huh. Unfortunately, it didnt happened that way.

Okie, Part 2 coming up tomorrow !

The Wedding Car
Groom looking very nervous

The entourage a.k.a "heng thais"

The 'brickhouse'
The best-man: Ellison